Throughout your life, you’ll have different desires. You will always be confronted with doubts, failures or perseverance to get there. You have tried several times to achieve something, but it did not work or you could not bring it up. Don’t panic!
If you want to achieve your goals, you must fight and create the centimeter that makes the difference. Many people have the same desires as you, but nobody is YOU.
I will introduce you to the different steps that will hopefully enable you to start or continue your dynamic on the path to success…. No matter what you try to achieve.
1- Define your goal clearly.
Before we can reach our goals, we must logically have one. When you get into a taxi, you first state your goal above all else. If you ignore this, it will lead you everywhere, but certainly not directly or never to where you really want to go. You will waste time on the way and not know exactly why you are doing it. Your goal should be as detailed as possible. So that you can explain it to a small child.
2- Create a concrete plan.
After completing the first step, you must draw up a plan to get there and how you want to proceed. Divide the big exercises into small ones so that you don’t get stressed too much and can do them faster. These sub-goals must be well structured and follow a sequence that you consider appropriate. It is also important to keep these in mind so as not to lose the thread and track your own progress. This will give you a sense of satisfaction as you see the list gradually decrease. Delete a goal or subgoal as soon as it is completed.
3- Be active and start.
A big goal or a perfect plan will not help you if you do not implement it. That’s for sure! Become someone who acts and not just claps and does nothing. You will feel guilty and wish you hadn’t started. It costs absolutely nothing to try it out. Ask yourself what you have to lose and what you will win, and then weigh it on a scale. I think the numbers on the balance sheet will be very clear. If you don’t, others will. Maybe not today, maybe not in 5 years, but one day. It’s normal people like you and me who are starting companies, great athletes, great scientists, and so on and so forth… If they hadn’t tried, you probably wouldn’t know their names today. It is a shame, but it is true! We become what we want to become and get what we want to get. Even very small, well organized actions can deliver the experienced result after their implementation and motivate you. Start small and get big tomorrow. Nobody, not even you, knows where this will lead you.
4- Accept or seek help.
We can start alone, but at some point we need help, we need to be surrounded by good people who support us and help us in one way or another to make our project a success. Don’t neglect this point, as many do. We can build a hut in a tree ourselves, but we cannot build a building ourselves. Ask for help if you need it. It is also a sign of leadership and wisdom. Delegate tasks that you think you are unable or no longer able to do yourself. It helps! Do not wait until you are in the best possible situation to call others. But don’t hurry, take the time to decide who will be with you. This will give you motivation. Those who want to succeed know that in order to get what you want from them, the latter must want to help them.
5- Be prepared for the unexpected.
As the name suggests, the unexpected is unpredictable, but it happens anyway. The way you deal with it will show your willingness to achieve your goals. It can be and often even lead you to adapt your plan to new events. But it should not embarrass you. You just have to adapt to the new situation and figure out how to use it or just bypass it and move on. Don’t let yourself be beaten, discouraged or even slowed down. It is important to keep your head up, it will forge you and make you better. And the most important thing of all is to do this while preserving your values, your ideals, your moral and legal ethics. A good plan is also a plan that knows how to adapt to situations.
6- Stay focused.
This point requires a lot of discipline. Do not lose sight of the goal. Don’t let yourself be distracted at any time, don’t appear and above all don’t hesitate. Do not try to do everything at once. Concentrate on one thing after another and do it to the end, then on another and so on. Stay away from people or objects that distract you the most or at least affect your productivity. Hence the fact that you have to be disciplined. The reward will not have a price later! Whenever.
7. Have a sense of priority.
Doing one in the other’s time will only lead to unrest. Do things in the right order and do not skip the steps or try to find a link. Because the course path is not synonymous with a better path. Don’t hurry and do the priority things first, then the less second, then those who can wait last. You are not a 5-year-old child who does not know what it wants and reacts with an impulse. No, you are a person with goals, a creative person who above all has a dream and knows what she wants. So do the necessary things.
8- Believe in what you are doing.
That will make the difference between those who give up after the first failure and those who continue and try again and again. This belief in yourself will give you strength and protect you from bad thoughts. The days follow each other, but do not look like others. Some days will be happier than others, so if you do not believe firmly in what you want to do, you will want to give up. Maybe you can’t see enough because the end of the tunnel seems far away. But do what you have planned bit by bit by doing these tasks, this goal will seem more realistic and doable to you and will strengthen your self-confidence. Believing in it will make others believe in it and so believe in you.
9- Visualize your goals.
Visualize what you want to become, what your life will become, what you will have, what you loved, what you want and when you want it. This allows your subconscious mind to search for solutions to make it possible….. To this being that you imagine yourself, to this life that you dream of, to these abilities that you want to possess. So what are you waiting for?!
10- To draw a balance after some time.
In this way you know where you stand and can prepare what remains. In addition, you will be satisfied that you have been able to cope with this thing and would therefore be inclined to continue in the same way.
We don’t all have the same definition of happiness, but no matter what your definition is, you deserve to have it. Think of people who are in worse situations than you. If you believe it, no one has the right to tell you that you won’t make it. You have no right to give up. Never give up! Never give up! Never ever.